My boyfriend knows I do not like these phone calls so now he silences his phones when he is with me -- this irritates me even more because then I feel like he is hiding something.How can my boyfriend get his ex wife to stop calling him ( unless it relates to a parenting issue)?
ONLY your bf can handle this.
And, yes... if he won't, then perhaps you have a serious problem.
But that's the beauty of the dating relationship: you have the freedom to walk away from what isn't working for you.
Good luck, Sweetie!
xoxoxoxoHow can my boyfriend get his ex wife to stop calling him ( unless it relates to a parenting issue)?
He cannot do this because it is impossible. You cannot control the actions of another person unless you physically over power them and force their movements. I would not recommend this type of response for your situation. All he can do is ask her not to make unnecessary phone calls and to hang up on her if she does. It sucks to be annoyed, but sometimes you just need to learn to live with it, as unfortunate as it may be.
Your boyfriend knows how girl don't be so naive he could stop her if he wanted to. For starters he can tell her he doesn't want to talk about anything but matters dealing with their child and if she can't respect that he will simply hang up if she gos on about anything else. Then if she calls and gos on about something else hang up once he does that she will get the hint.
The problem is she is only doing what she knows he will let her do.
first off, i disagree with everyone else about the whole dinner situation. him spending time with his child is fine, but he can take her to dinner on his own. there is no reason they all need to go together. he has his time and she has her time. unless there is a major family function or something important, they don't need to continue to go as a family. that being said, i do agree that if he wanted it to stop, he would put a stop to it. she is only getting away with what he is allowing her to. all you can do is voice your opinion on what you feel is fair and if he agrees, great, but if he doesn't then it's up to you to either put up with it or walk away.
You should call his wife and daughter and ask them to dinner with you and him. Let her know who she's trying to screw over...
THEN when she leaves meal to go to the toilet fake that you need to go too smash her up in the toilet and say that if she tells anyone she's dead. Then fix your make up go sit down and when she comes back say ';OMG WTF HAPPENED TO YOU? YOU LOOK LIKE SH*T';
if you don't like it, then find a man who doesn't have a child. There's nothing wrong with them trying to be on good terms for the sake of their child, there's nothing wrong with going to dinner, I'm sure the daughter would like that. Don't get in the way.
She, and the daughter are part of his life... and they will be forever.
Either you accept that (It's called baggage, and it's why lots of us don't date guys with dependent children) or you find someone without kids.
Truly, hon, it is as simple as that.
It takes two to tango, she may be calling, but he's answering. You're a girlfriend, and a very controlling one at that if you want to try and dictate who he can and can not talk to.
get over it.
no matter what, she will always mean something to him because she is the mother of his child. and if you trusted him, it wouldnt bother you. so stop nagging him about it or you are going to push him back to her.
This is the kind of thing you will have to deal with when you date a man with kids.
If she invites him to dinner, let him go, and tag along. That should put a stop to it.
Date someone without children. I see nothing wrong with him going to dinner with them. If that's your only example, you need to date someone without children.
This is an issue that he has to deal with - he needs to put his big boy pants on and let the ex know that this is getting annoying
IF HE IS ALLOWING HIS EX TO PHONE HIM THIS WAY...SORRY TO TELL YOU THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT..ITS OBVIOUS HE WANT HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO....BE WARE! GOOD LUCK!
It not her it his fault he can say no then she will stop calling
umm if it really bothers you should try talking to her, and telling her how you feel.
If he is totally honest with her..she will stop calling
If you are upset because the mother of your BOYFRIENDS child wants him to go eat dinner and spend time with their child you are a piss poor person. How do you think it makes your boyfriend feel that you get upset because his EX (they call them EX-whatever for a reason) asks if he would like to spend time with his daughter even if it is only half hour 45 min every few nights? Im also assuming that the daughter is not old enough to drive herself to dinner because if she would the daughter probably would just come over alone if she wanted to see her dad. My step-sons dad calls my wife a lot as well. And yes sometimes it is an invite to lunch or dinner with him and yes she does occasionally accept the offer. There is no reason to be jealous of an EX and his daughter. Im sure that he actually enjoys spending time with his child, at least I would hope so.
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