Go to see a school counselor and see what they tell you. They might refer you to a lawyer who will in turn make sure that you are being covered for this. The babys dad has responsibilities here and he should be ready to do the right thing no matter what. Good luck.What are the laws about teen parenting in New Jersey?
Your ex boyfriend's parents will not be paying child support, your boyfriend will be. He can't give up his rights without your consent, don't give it to him. Make sure that you have him in court for child support as soon as your baby is born. I don't think the laws for teens are any different than adults when it comes to things like child support. Here is the website for child support guidelines in New Jersey.
http://www.judiciary.state.nj.us/csguide…
Do not listen to the person who is telling you that you should have an abortion because anyone under 21 are unfit parents, she doesn't know what she is talking about. Since when are 5 year olds mothers. Geez.
sorry to burst his bubble, but he will pay child support until the baby is 18! And he can only give up his rights (meaning not pay child support) if you agree to it (and I highly recommend you not agree to it!). He needs to pay what he should.
there are way he can avoid paying child support. Just know this.
If he gets paid under the table then the gov can't take money out of his check because he isn't getting one.
you might not ever see that money. If he moves then you'll probably never have luck getting any money, ever
His parents dont have to pay either. Nothing will happen to them if they refuse. Also, if he doesnt have a job then you get money either
just get an abortion kiddo.
Girls 5yrs old and up can give birth and have been for centuries, but that doesn‘t mean they SHOULD! So don’t even think for a second that “age doesn’t matter”
I would LOVE to know what 5yr old is a fit mother? Or even a 10yr old?!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_you…
Any idiot can have sex, but it takes much more to be a responsible, mature and financially stable parent. Age DOES matter! Maturity is gained through life experiences and life experiences are obtained over time.
Getting knocked up doesn't magically make you mature or a responsible adult!
abortion is simply a medical procedure to remove a parasitic organism
$200-$1,000 (abortion) will save your life/future, his life/future, and keep your parents from humiliation.
Having a knocked up teen daughter is a failure on your parents.
Do you realize that you're a direct reflection of their ability to be good parents, right?
People will judge THEM by what YOU do.
Keeping a baby YOU can't afford or take care of is NOT ';brave';, ';mature'; or ';responsible'; but it is in fact irresponsible, selfish, and just plain dumb!
If your PARENTS wanted another child then THEY would have had one. If you can't care for a baby independently then you have NO business having one!
Did you know just giving birth in a hospital costs thousands of dollars alone?
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Basics for being a successful parent
(the ideal situation)
be at least 21 (25+ is best)
be married (or have life partner)
have at least $5,000 just for the baby
both own cars
both have careers (not just jobs)
both have degrees
I’m adopted, and the system is flawed! The world already has TOO many unwanted kids, so don’t choose adoption either. Chances are you’re kid will end up abused or on the streets anyways.
I had an abortion when I was 18 and it was the best decision I ever made for myself! (I had plans and a future ahead of me) I challenge anyone to make me regret it too.
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