Saturday, January 23, 2010

What do you think of the Nanny show where the aproach to parenting is concerned?

The naughty step routine for example, does it really work?What do you think of the Nanny show where the aproach to parenting is concerned?
I think a lot of her ideas are good - I used time out naughty step - funny but rewards never did it for my boy - consequences worked better for him. The stuff she does works but you have to give it time and commitment





She is really training and working with the parents and not the kids - I think she can be a little patronising sometimes - but I also think some the parents go back to old habits as soon as she walks out the doorWhat do you think of the Nanny show where the aproach to parenting is concerned?
I don't like that show, because she stays there for like what..one week? Now i have kids, and if somebody TOTALLY new and different came into there life's for one week and told them how to act and whatever, they would see it as a game and play along but as soon as the new lady leaves they go right back to being themselves. Kids don't come with Manuel's, every kid is different and they don't fit into these little boxes this show tries to put them in.
If you don't have stairs it isn't going to work is it....





I use the time out, but not like her.


When a child of mine is time out, they are to stay there until they are calm and clear minded. I will not let them out, if they continue to be rude, and unruly. And I don't use the 1 minute per year, as stated I wait till they are ready to behave themselves.


For serious misbehaving they are placed in their rooms, at their desks, with a few colouring books and crayons. So they can have some quiet time, and think about their behaviour.





It's working for us. Our Eldest came to live with us 10 months ago and was completely out of control, and he has really improved from this. Our 3yo are well behaved as well. Our 10 month old twins, well they need a little work.
more details...what is the naughty step routine?

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